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发表于 3-3-2015 23:07:04|来自:新加坡
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应对沮丧和灾难
虽然无花果树不发旺、葡萄树不结果、橄榄树也不效力、田地不出粮食、圈中绝了羊、棚内也没有牛,然而我要因耶和华欢欣,因救我的 神喜乐。主耶和华是我的力量,祂使我的脚快如母鹿的蹄,又使我稳行在高处(哈巴谷3:17-19)
亲爱的弟兄姊妹们,无数人会因为逆境而感到失败和沮丧,可是我们能作出不同的回应。挫折、沮丧或灾难,对真基督徒来说是一个灵命成长的机会,但对表面的基督徒和非信徒来说却是毁灭性的打击。
对沮丧和灾难作出合上帝心意的回应,首先就要抵挡以罪恶本性对待苦难之人。如果某人陷入了逆境,不要武断地批判他或她的行为表现。因为我们无法全面了解别人的生命发生了什么,或什么动机使他们作出这些举动。第二步,我们应该求问上帝:“我要怎样来回应?”上帝会带领我们作出智慧和公义的回应,因为祂知道全部事实。
第三步,跟从上帝的指引而行,即使不是你所想的。上帝的道路,通常相抵于我们自己的渴望和朋友的建议。而祂的旨意永远都是要使我们的灵命成长起来,并且使我们收获最大的益处。
最后,你要始终保持专注于上帝和祂对你生命的更高旨意。人都很容易会沉陷在自己所受的痛苦和伤害中,这就是沮丧极具毁灭性的地方。
只有一个有益的方法能够对付失望或沮丧,就是跟从上帝的道路和祂的旨意而行。虽然人的计划能被改变,但是任何事都无法动摇上帝的旨意。无论你受的伤害有多深,当你服从上帝所以信心成长时,上帝会牧领着你穿过挫折和悲痛的逆境。罗马书8:28申明:“我们晓得万事都互相效力,叫爱 神的人得益处,就是按祂旨意被召的人。”
上帝是至高掌管着世界,就是掌管着有信心(服从上帝)的真基督徒生命中所发生的一切事情,所以每一件事都是经上帝所命,为使我们得益处而运作。患难、困苦、逼迫、饥饿、赤身露体、危险或刀剑,万事都互相效力,叫爱上帝的人得益处。
因此,真基督徒坚固的盼望,不在于他的生命能避免失望、困苦、危险、饥饿、残害,而是全能上帝向我们施恩慈,使我们每一个痛苦为我们的益处而运作。创世纪里,约瑟对卖他为奴的兄弟们说:“你们的意思是要害我,但 神的意思原是好的。”(创世纪50:20 从前你们的意思是要害我,但 神的意思原是好的,要保全许多人的性命,成就今日的光景)。所以每个沮丧和灾难,对那些爱上帝而信靠上帝、服从上帝话语的基督徒来说,也是如此,上帝的旨意是要让我们得益处!
Dealing with Disappointment and Calamity
Habakkuk 3:
17 Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls 18 yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in GOD my SAVIOUR. 19 The SOVEREIGN LORD is my strength; HE makes my feet like the feet of a deer, HE enables me to tread on the heights.
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
Countless people feel defeated and let down by disappointing situations. But our response can make all the difference. Frustrations, disappointment or calamity when happen to a true follower of CHRIST can be an opportunity for spiritual growth and a destructive blow to the superficial Christians and non-believers.
A right response to disappointment or calamity begins with resisting the natural tendency toward bitterness. If someone else was involved in the situation, don’t be quick to judge his or her conduct. We can’t fully understand what is going on in others’ lives or what motivates them to act as they do. Our second step should be to ask the LORD, “How am I to respond?” GOD can guide us to a wise and righteous reaction because HE has all the facts.
Third, follow HIS direction, even if it isn’t what you want to do. Oftentimes the LORD’s way contradicts our own desires and the advice of friends. However, HIS plan is the one that will bring about growth and result in our greatest good.
And finally, keep your focus on GOD and HIS higher purpose in your life. People are prone to dwell on their hurts and the harm that comes to them, which is what makes disappointment so destructive.
There is only one healthy method for dealing with let-down or disappointment —pursues the LORD’s way and HIS will. Though human plans can be derailed, nothing alters GOD’s purpose. No matter how deep your hurt goes, HE will shepherd you through setbacks and sorrows while growing your faith. Rom. 8:28 affirms that ‘28 And we know that in all things GOD works for the good of those who love HIM, who have been called according to HIS purpose.’
GOD is so supremely in charge of the world that all the things that happen to true Christians who in faith are obedient to GOD, that everything ordered in such a way they serve our good. Tribulation and distress and persecution and famine and nakedness and peril and sword all work together for the good of those who love GOD.
So the rugged hope of the true believer is not that we will escape disappointment or distress or peril or hunger or slaughter, but that ALMIGHTY GOD will make every one of our agonies an instrument of HIS mercy to do us good. In Genesis - Joseph said to his brothers who had sold him into slavery, "You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good." Genesis 50: “20 As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.” And so it is with every Disappointment or calamity of those who love and trust GOD and obey HIS WORD. GOD meant it for our good!
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