[讨论]The feeling of marriage!

木易馬枫

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>waiting~</I>在2005-1-9 14:44:53的发言：</B>
i want to get marry...i thought the marriage is means of home in my heart....haha..but i still cant find out my mr. right..</DIV>
<P>may i ask a question?
<P>do you have a standard of Mr. right in your heart?
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木易馬枫

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>joyks</I>在2005-1-7 13:26:54的发言：</B>
That is 有情人忠诚眷属's English Version[em01]</DIV>
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<P>I see.</P>
<P>by the way, you changed your image, is that your real photo?</P>
<P>if that so,you are so pretty!</P>[em02][em02][em02]

DongTing

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>苦口咖啡</I>在2005-1-11 4:57:09的发言：</B>
<P>i'm afraid of marriage. coz i dun believe there is permanent  love</P>
<P>but for girls i think life without marriage is not an intergrated life(完整的)</P>
<P>so contradiction</P></DIV>
<P>Actually,  i should say I feel the same with you.  I doubt there is a "real love" in the world 'cause we are in a realistic society.   I surpose I won't marry in my life, really, at least at this moment.  However, I still hope I will be as lucky as Joyks to find my Mr. Right one day. </P>[em01][em01]

[此贴子已经被作者于2005-1-11 13:57:22编辑过]

joyks

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>苦口咖啡</I>在2005-1-11 4:57:09的发言：</B>

<P>i'm afraid of marriage. coz i dun believe there is permanent  love</P>
<P>but for girls i think life without marriage is not an intergrated life(完整的)</P>
<P>so contradiction</P></DIV>
<P>I used to distrust the ‘real love’ as well. I changed my mind after meeting my husband. I am so lucky to have him all my life. As said before, I will cherish him forever.<p></p></P>
<P>The permanent love is based on the two persons and their own efforts. Don't give up!  I am sure you will find him out!<p></p></P>Perseverance is victory!

joyks

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>木易馬枫</I>在2005-1-10 14:54:36的发言：</B>


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<P>I see.</P>
<P>by the way, you changed your image, is that your real photo?</P>
<P>if that so,you are so pretty!</P>[em02][em02][em02]</DIV>
<P>Thanks!  The picture was taken on last Sat.. I changed the image due to my friend's request....
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苦口咖啡

<P>i'm afraid of marriage. coz i dun believe there is permanent  love</P><P>but for girls i think life without marriage is not an intergrated life(完整的)</P><P>so contradiction</P>

DongTing

<P>To Joyks,</P><P> You look so beautiful, happy and confident.  Hope one day I would be the same as you~~ </P>

木易馬枫

<DIV class=quote><B>以下是引用<I>joyks</I>在2005-1-11 9:04:09的发言：</B>


<P>I used to distrust the ‘real love’ as well. I changed my mind after meeting my husband. I am so lucky to have him all my life. As said before, I will cherish him forever.


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<P>The permanent love is based on the two persons and their own efforts. Don't give up!  I am sure you will find him out!
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<p>Perseverance is victory!   </DIV>
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<P>yes, i quite agree with you. thank you making a good example for us.</P>
<P>so I am looking forward my Mr.right. hee.......</P>[em01][em01][em01]

joyks

<P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Thanks, DongTing.  I am happy now because I experienced the gloomy and overcame the plight. Moreover, my husband stood behind me all through.  That makes me understand the true meaning of ‘Nothing tickles that pitches out’<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Therefore, do not worry about missing the true love. You will find your Mr. Right as long as you never close the door of your heart up. You absolutely will be better than me.<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">To all,<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Once bitten, twice shy. Probably you had an unhappy story about love; possibly your friend’s feeling of love influenced you negatively. On that account, you perhaps loose the confidence on love.<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Some tips for you from my own experience<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1.Let bygones be bygones since tomorrow is another day.<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Remember: no man is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.</FONT>
<FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">2.Consider what kind of man you love to spend your whole life on living with<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Bear this proverb in mind: Marry in haste, and repent at leisure<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">3 Please cherish him if you are 100% sure he is the one you desire of<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman">However, you must know:  he doesn't love you the way you want him to, doesn't mean he doesn’t love you with all he has<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">4.Be an independent woman not only economically but spiritually  <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">Restatement: All shall be well, Jack shall have Jill.<p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <p></p></FONT></P><P 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT face="Times New Roman">All happiness in the mind!<p></p></FONT></P><P>
Best wishes to all of you</P><P> </P>

木易馬枫

<P>That's quite true!</P><P>Thanks your tips!</P>[em01][em01][em01]