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I fell in love with HongKongee who older than me twenty years above for three years. He was rich man in China but not in HK because he just had four housing in HK and Macau . He’s just middle class in HK. He not only my relative but also my boyfriend. We were introduced by another relative and became lovers. Since 2002, no matter I worked, open jewellery shop and made a living, they came up to interfere my life, ask folks to spread out the rumour and gossip to slander, insult and disdain me, make trouble and coincidence to convince people believe what they said about me in the purpose of pressuring on me for compromise. Therefore, he agree me not go to work and close shop and support my daily finance. Due to our gap between finance and age, his daughter objects extremely. She was used to say that I didn’t love him but just for his money. She was afraid of me to take away of his entire estate asset. He loves her very much and was used to send her to USA for study in millions, took care of her cat for 15 years day and night and did homework and cook for her at night after his busy time which he had to work from 4am to 6pm until she get married. Nowadays, she just gave one-tenth of her salary for him monthly. However, he won’t get away from me because of his daughter. Nobody had right to interfere our life because of our love.
From 2008 to 2009, I went to HK frequently. We went down the street to get attention from people who thought of our age is not match. Therefore, the neighbors who are fish and vegetable detailer yelling me as hooker and crazy woman etc. even the security guides of the building I lived said me as thieve and issue the notice to remind all residents to mind the thieves and change the door code. Also some women pointed to me and said I’m crazy and thieve for two years.
During couple time I went to temples for pray, the newspaper report thieve stole some
Metal accessories from temples ( My blog showed these coincidences they made
frequently to make people believe that me and my bf are guilty and suspicious) I’m not afraid of their accusation because I’m innocent. However, no matter how I turn the other to them in public and make friend with others, but they make trouble and spread out the rumour and gossip to misunderstand folks believe what they said about my bf and me. In order to make bad blood between my bf and me,they kept on persuading the friends, relatives and associates around my bf to destroy my reputation and credit. Also make illusion on my bf to believe that I had another man except him. I.e. a man hold his mobile to come up me and ask when I call him when we went out; a man ring our door at night but my bf didn’t open door through the door hole; sometimes, some call my mobile. I’m doubted that I didn’t show number to everybody except my parents and sisters. Even I didn’t visit the rest of my relatives in HK. Obviously, they really want us to separate.
HK is very small place, if they want to make joke of me. They’re very easy to suffer me in slander, accursed, insult, discriminated situation. As far as we know, HK stars often are suffer in slander, accursed, insult, discriminated situation. Also the celebrities are under consensus and criticize and privacy discovery in newspaper. It’s proved that HK is a place where is more democratic than mainland China . HK people were used to live in rumors and gossips environment. They’re rather interested in benefit than true or fault discernment. I understood that they must offer overwhelming witnesses to prove that it’s my problem and I’m trouble maker in stead of them. They were good at making use of women,suckers and poor people to insult and slander me because that I had conflict with them in benefit and spend their money as they though. When I mentioned someone shouted at me and they must say I shouted at people firstly. General Speaking, everything I talked about is opposite as they were used to object my opinion in order to confuse and lie on folks. Pls be noted that I had a lot of unhappy experience, why I’m so stupid to mess up the relation between the folks and me? Why I’m so rude to screw up everything in order to make people angry? Obviously, they’re intentional to torture and make trouble on me.
Folk can’t help asking why they had been keeping on tracing u? why there’re so many people to condemn me ? are u a trouble maker? I have to claim that I met the wrong people in the wrong time at the wrong place at first. Some of them are evils and revenge to me. For example, I was used to work at Kiu Lok estate management office, I was not satisfied with my female manager RACHEL LOK( the detailed I mentioned in another article) she’s afraid of me to destroy her reputation and complain her to the headquarter. It’s coincident that the company and she was left there. The second company MATTEL I worked where I met some male manager’s sexual indication and harass. I didn’t complain them but for the female clerk whom didn’t hand over job to me very successfully to G.M. They’re including my manager KF Lee, super-ordinate TINA and HongKong colleagues left after couple months I refused them and left. Then I worked at E&E company where I met manager’s sexual implication again but I refuse and left. He’s fired and the whole factory was sold by others after a year. Because of these coincidences and accidences occur, they were doubted and traced that if I was spider sent by other to investigate their companies and factories. Some said they hired me because I was hooker, the other said I was sent by the government because they had no idea why the custom and tax bureau checked them so often after I worked there. The colleagues from other department came to see me and intend to say I was not special as they said. From then on, I was in bad luck that the companies and factories were closed, some my ex-managers were laid off, it seems that some of them were in bad luck as well. Therefore, they said I was tornado (I was born the dragon of the year), where I came, where is disaster. They have been keeping eye on me and arrange me to the company or factory they controlled. Since 2002, they came up to persuade my friends, colleagues not to get close with me and said my fail work experience to let them down to me and transfer my ex-manager, super-ordinate’s messages on me that I was weird and lazy, look like thieve in the purpose of changing their good impression on me to bad and terrible side. They had been trying to prove that my character was problem, involved in gangster, and charged the fault on me. If they didn’t prevent me from making friend with my colleagues and strangers, I should get along with them very well. I was aware that they had been keeping eye on me and condemning me. I try my best to change my shortage, tolerate, respect and get on well with the colleagues and friends around me. However, they blew my top that I argue and fight with them to make them more hate to me. In fact, there was few people want to bring me into disrepute and give me a hard time (I knew who). They’re snaky to convince people that where I went, wherever I offend other. They egg people on arguing with me and make illusion and coincidence to prove that I was aggressive, querulous controversial woman and good at spreading out the rumours and gossips and spontaneous to fight and against others instead of the talebearer ruin everything I did behind me back and turn people against my bf and me. At the same time, they tired to make bad blood between people and my bf and me in profit conflict.
Who are they? They’re my ex-bosses and managers who lived in HK, also RACHEL LOK’s brother who is in charge of broadcasting department of police supervising centre.(Specially for the bosses from Kiu Lok estate management who made use of my first pension evidence to convince people around me and questioned my behaviour and working ability.) They were afraid of me to explain, complain and clear up. They drew my relatives, ex-classmates,ex-colleagues and friends over to their side in order to be alliance to criticize, correct my words and control me. They had some supporters who are interested party to help to spread out the rumours and gossips to effect on my life in order to get more and more people to believe that I’m evil, liar. They try their best to keep on sending the negative message to me: most of the HK people dislike me, I’m not popular woman, they didn’t welcome me. However, I’m continue to sure that HK is a harmony, stabilize, economic boom place where is more fair, justice and democrat than GZ and SZ city. Most of HK folk are kind, nice and educated and happy to help each other. But there was a little of saboteur went to every etiquette to step on my toes, they made use of my bf’s neighbours, friends, colleagues and relatives, even his daughter strategically to spread out the vicious gossip to traduce my bf and me so as to expand their power and influence and convince more and more people who pay attention on us. I felt it’s getting more and more serious and call the police station, he’s weird to say it’s just civil dispute instead of criminal. I’m doubted his explanation but he didn’t respond again. Why he said I had civil dispute but nobody to stand up to accuse us in police station? I think they absolutely destroy the good impression of HK. If you had comment on me, leave message to me instead of saying us behind our back. Or not u’re backbiter, abused, framed us.
Some suspicious issues for your analysis and study:
1) They said I’m thief. Why they inform everyone after I left each time? ( Note: my first and second jobs didn’t happen similar accusation, but for the third company which named Kiu Lok estate management office because they brought first pension for me. Rachel and her bosses extremely complained and accused me) i.e. when I quit the job or went to travel with my bf, went shopping, they were unctuous to remind the outsiders including the bosses, managers, tourists,tourist guide and merchandiser to watch out us because they doubted us as thieves for seven years. Also they said we are disreputable. I was used to go body check in S.Z hospital, there were four women in room, two women came after me, female doctor. She dare at me to say to her accompanist: “be care of a thief.” We went to travel in S.H with my bf, the accompanied G.Z tourists are sneak up to said to others: “we look like thieves, we should be aware of our luggage ” but they didn’t call police to look up our luggage and belongings. They’re sarcastic explained that we’re just pilferers not serious criminal. It’s big insult and mischievous! I didn’t pilfer since I was child. My teachers and classmates are my personal dignity witnesses. As far as they said me and kept eye on me, why not to expose at that time face to face because I have been traveling in HK for two years? Why talked about us behind our back instead of in front of us directly? Why they just mentioned we are thieves to others time by time instead of call police to investigate us directly? Why I had been in HK for two years, police never ask me and check my belongings? Let me lay bare an evil plot: they just want me not to go oversea, brought disrepute upon me and ruin my life. For the above reasons, I went to police station to issue non-criminal certification for myself.
2)They said the outsiders paid attention of me because of someone spread out the rumors and gossips everywhere instead of my weird behavior. For example, they intend to say I’m thieve to bring people’s concern, discuss. They exposed my private life, arouse public indignation and suspicion to pressure on me. They try to drive me crazy by venomous gossips. They always turned upside down the fact by their purely fiction and confound right and wrong. i.e. I have been reconciled to them and kept silent, never announce before the blog issue. But they deny they did spread out my story before I clarify. They took advantage of folk to threaten me, pressure me to surrender. I don’t believe the people want me to die unless they’re allied with them in benefit because I had no finance or life dispute with them. The rest of outsiders are followed by them and reluctant to get trouble. Even they spread out the rumor that the china leaders said me ( There are witnesses admitted that rumor). I don’t’ believe the china leaders say sth to influent on my life and future and make me live harder in china. Besides, I didn’t meet them before and offend them, why they just condemn and criticize me only as I’m innocent woman? I’m enjoy the favorable policy in china including housing mortgagee, pension and medical insurance. Obviously, they want me to live in poor condition lonely in china, put me into the situation that I have no chance to find my leg in the society and everybody can’t trust and help me.
3)They said I’m hooker because of the male ex-managers and colleagues were eager to have sex with me but failed. They did sexual harass on me. They were initiative to insult and slander me as hooker because I asked them money but I swear I never ask them money and had sex with them. My JiangXi ex-bf also was allied with them to insure I was hooker because I was sales in foreign trade field and got in touch with foreign customers frequently. I did saw some female sales make use of their body to gain orders for factory and company. But I never did it before because I always stay a company or factory for couple months, even a working year I was used to refuse foreign customers once. Therefore, I was fired by some factories because I didn’t sacrifice by myself to them. Nowadays, I had no official record to show that I’m hooker except the rumour. I can’t help asking why not arrest me because it’s illegal to be hooker in china. They including RACHEL Lok’s brother who is in charge of broadcasting department of police supervision center just past on it to everybody, even G.Z police to believe that I’m prostitute. They intend to introduce women to my bf so as to compete with me now, but he didn’t abandon me. Hence, they must break my exclusive privilege, go on spreading out the rumors to hurt and kick me out of my bf’s life so that they can control my bf totally.
4)They said I’m liar. Because I totally depend on my bf in finance. He agrees that I didn’t come back to work. They’re really jealous me to wangle profit from my bf. They told people I sponged money from my bf . On the other hand, they have been on my case to make me fall into disrepute due to separate us. Here are questions: if I’m disreputable in people’s heart, how I can lie on them? Why not to put me in jail ASAP? Why just talk behind my back to people? I’m just small, weak and ordinary citizen, nobody stand up to accuse me on what kind of sin I get to him face to face. They just pitched a yarn to back-bite my bf and me.
5)They said I’m evil woman and involved in gangster. But why the police didn’t contact me to inquire and arrest me? Nowadays, they said I’m changed but try to make false phenomenon and coincidence to prove that I’m evil. Are they contradicted? I’m always cautious to make friends and knew that birds of a feather flock together. They not only insult me but also insult all friends I knew. I never betray my bf although they always slander me that I had two men at the same time. They’re cursed me not to marry with a good man even never marry. They want to control my bf, but failed and announced the public that she’s miserable and innocent and misapprehend people to believe that I stole her bf. As the matter of fact, the most convincible evidence is that my bf recognized me as an only girlfriend whom accompanied with him to travel in holiday. Why they always sully my reputation time by time? Obviously, they hope to raise her price and devalue me for their benefit sake. Not only ask her to have sex with my bf to drive him to fall into disrepute of playboy, but also arouse folk to condemn him as heathen. Nowadays, she’s pregnant but the baby is not belong to my bf, they spread out the rumor that my bf didn’t bear the responsibility to her and I’m evil to kick her out so as to call people angry and criticize. General Speaking, they try to intend to stirred up trouble and hatred that they must be right in everything; most of people must be on their side. In this effect, it became more and more people get to know our story and misconceive of us. Man is multiple-choice animal. If woman is initiative to knock his door, he must not refuse. I didn’t interfere them, but they reluctant to accept me and want me to get away from him forever.
6)When I get on well with new friends, they ask my friends to contact them in advance, make them believe that I was sick. They had drawn my relatives, friends, ex-colleagues and classmates over to their side to provide tons of witnesses and false evidences to convince them in order to make bad blood between my new friend and me. For example, my aunt told my rest of relatives that I was sick ( I had mobile message evidence) and then her reward is that her husband was promoted and had a rise in wage in 2006. For the sake of profit, they make all people around me to trust that I was sick successfully. If u don’t believe, u can make friend with me, there must be tons of folks come up to talk about my story to u. But I’m afraid u will deny this fact because of their power and influence and u might be their side or turn coat after I revealed them. Here are the questions: Although they have been talking about me as a psychopath for 7 years, why they’re worry about me to say? Why they’re nervous to explain and correct my words time by time? Are they contradicted? I’m fully confidence that some people are justice, fair and conscientious who recognize that they did hear from the tale slanders before I mentioned and make them blood run cold. They just want me to be alone to live without helping from friends. |
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