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发表于 2-1-2011 00:59:07|来自:新加坡
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pinkpinkqueen 发表于 31-12-2010 15:42
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你连说话口气都跟他差不多,悲剧。。。
我只打字,没开口。。。从字面上你也能断定我说话的口气。呵呵。。你厉害!
依我看,你心境是从期望到失望,后愤怒到发泄,再回平静。。。。
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The Absence of Face-to-face Cues
the absence of face-to-face cues has a major impact on the experience of a text relationship. You can't see other people's faces or hear them speak. All those subtle voice and body language cues are lost, which makes the nuances of communicating more difficult. But humans are creative beings.。。。。。。。
The lack of face-to-face cues may create ambiguity. Without hearing a person's voice or seeing body language and facial expressions, you may not be sure what the person means. This ambiguity activates the imagination, stirs up fantasies, enhances the tendency to project your own expectations, wishes, and anxieties unto the somewhat shadowy figure sitting at the other end of the online connection.
-Suler, J.R. (2004) Psychotherapy in cyberspace -The Psychology of Text Relationships |
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