Everything happens for a good reason!

robinson3414

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
  

  
And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.

  
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.
  

  
Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.

  
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again.
  

  
Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold you head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create you own life and then go out and live it.
  

                                                          Cheers

雪影

那只大狗好帅啊!

robinson3414

今天在网上不经意间看到的一篇，本来想把它加上中文翻译的，但是感觉翻译成中文就没有原来的意思表达的强烈了。
It is really true that everything happens for a good reason, no matter whether you have realize it or not.

杨林1972

我狭隘了。。

杨林1972

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
看到这里就想到 小白 了。。。   你出现在我生命中的那段日子，成就了我现在的样子。。。
我是该喜该悲？ 该怨恨还是该感激？？？

杨林1972

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart.

小白，非常抱歉。。。我没有战胜命运给我的挑战。我没有潜质，也没有力量。。。对不起。。。

杨林1972

如果没能从失败中学习什么
如果内心的伤不能抚平
如果没有原谅
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就再没有爱
再没有信任了
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我就生活在这样的泥沼中

杨林1972

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again. -------  我是坏人！！！！！！ 你爱我 可我不能因为你在试图教我再爱人 而爱上你  。。   我会着眼于你所做得令我不满的一些小事上，从而使生活更加煎熬。。。。。

杨林1972

我的狭隘完了。  谢谢收看。

robinson3414

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Think more about what you own, and think less about what you don't have, you will be more happy than whom it was in your past time.

多想一些你目前拥有什么，少想一些你没有的，你会比以前快乐。