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发表于 7-9-2012 11:17:52|来自:新加坡
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本帖最后由 jjrchome 于 7-9-2012 11:20 编辑
“过早的知识传授
一些热衷于所谓“智力开发”的父母,积极地对幼小的孩子进行读写算训练。那些学业知识不符合幼儿的认知特点,孩子虽然也能靠鹦鹉学舌的方式死记硬背下来,但并不理解,所以往往并未能促进他们的智力发展,反而给孩子带来很大的学习压力,降低了对学习的兴趣,挫伤了自信。”
完全赞同上面这段话!
李显龙总理最近在Facebook上分享了一篇文章---《Simon Says Don’t Use Flashcards》,并写下了这样一段话:“At the National Day Rally on Sunday, I said that it is good for young children to play and learn through play. We should not force feed our kids, and turn pre-school into a prep course for Primary One. I am glad that many parents and educators have agreed with me.”。 (http://www.facebook.com/leehsienloong)
读者们对李显龙的这个Post反应热烈,以下是几个比较典型的评论:
1. PM Sir...I strongly agreed with you that kids should have their childhood...I have 2 kids, one in P1 and the other in K1...I understand in P1 school is not teaching ABC and also expect you to know basic mathematics as well. So no choice we have to send our kids to enrichment class even when they are in preschool stage...to be honest, me and my wife had a few disagreement on sending our kids to all these extra lesson when they are so young...children now are lossing their childhood. I don't remember my parent sent me and my brother to all these when we were young...but think back, do we have choice...
2. One more thing.... Bad childhoon = Bad memories = No heart for Singapore. People have heart for a place because they can associate deep bonding with the places in their memories. I hope my children don't remember Singapore as a place where they were pushed to study like hell with zero childhood.
3. 总理先生,我曾经是一名幼教师,我在这行有十几年了!我觉得您的提议是好的,但是否有考虑到小一的程度呢?如果幼儿从K2至小一程度有很大的分别,幼儿将会感到非常压力。环境的改变,不一样的老师,时间较长等问题。所以,要改变幼儿教育,也要调整小一的要求!
4. Dear Mr Lee, thank you for the timely reminder. I have two boys 3 & 7 and most weekends that's what I try to do. I try to spend as much time as I can with them and give them the opportunity to enjoy life. However, parents can't do this on their own. The formal education system has to change too. In P1 you are expected to already know more than the alphabets, the maths problem sums sometimes even baffle my son who comes from an English educated middle class background, they are learning multiplication & mathematics. I am resisting sending him for tuition. Why do we need out kids to learn so many concepts so soon? I only learnt multiplication in Pri 3. If we accelerate learning we need to also understand the stress families go through and is the child able to understand and is ready to learn the concepts at such a young age? I believe I am one of the minority that actually bring my kids outdoors and let them play but we need to relook our education system. It was one of the reasons why I wanted to leave this country when I was 16. I am now reliving it with my children. Unless the structure changes you will have parents who will continue to send their kids for tuition 7 days a week and many many unhappy and mentally children with no sense of a happy childhood. I eventually went to study abroad and trust me it levels out. The Aussie kids did not have a stressful pri, sec education but we were on par. Maybe they were at a level better than I was as I was used to being spoon fed. I made a commitment to return to Singapore and to contribute to my country. I hope you do hear us out and work with us to make Singapore a great place or even greater. Thank you!
5. 【中国欧美教育对比】中国:小学累、中学苦、高中拼、大学混。玩耍的年龄被逼学习,学习的年龄只想玩耍。欧美:小学玩、中学混、高中学、大学拼。玩耍的年龄就玩耍,学习的年龄才学习。小、中、高阶段中国学生一般占优,进入大学阶段,欧美学生迅速超越。太看重起点,必将失去终点。
6. PM Lee, my undergraduate friend cannot solve her kid's Pri 3 maths qs... Do we really need to have the top Maths student in the world? I like my kid to enjoy his childhood too, but I am afraid that he is not able to cope when he enters Pri sch and when this happen, it will destroy his interests in learnings and studies. Perhaps, MOE should relook at the standard of the syllabus and adjust it to age-appropriate level. If not, all parents will have no choice but to start their kids at ABC as early as 1 year old.
7. Teach Less Learn More is really about facilitating the learning. I came to understand this when I took Life Coaching course in 2003. After many years, I came to realised I was conditioned to love my children by their academic results. Not love them for who they are. I struggled to let go of sending my kids to tuition, enrichment classes and had been thinking of migrating because I was so stressed trying to help my children achieve academic results because they are assessed by this system. They beat themselves up thinking they are 'not good enough' when they fail in their exam. I felt guilty not knowing what I did would result in them being more confident or otherwise when the education system only recognize academic achievements. In the process of doing so, I became frustrated and unconsciously vent my anger onto my children, relationship suffered. Like a bird trapped in a cage singing songs of 'freedom'.
8. When schools started "teach less, learn more" scheme few years ago... i was like "HUH??"... schools teach less... but students get more tuition and parents pay more... DID the scheme work? Any study on that? Thanks.
9. As a parent of present era, it is not that we want to be KIASU, but because the surrounding environment forces us to it, if we dont dont do this we will not get that, it is a vicious cycle.
10. My kids reminded me yesterday that PM said no homework is not a bad thing. I reminded them that "PM isn't the one who has to submit the homework to teacher tomorrow, get back to work."
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