Have I Ever Seen a Christian?
Psalm 78:1-7
1 My people, hear MY teaching; listen to the words of MY mouth. 2 I will open my mouth with a parable; I will utter hidden things, things from of old— 3 things we have heard and known, things our ancestors have told us. 4 We will not hide them from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, HIS power, and the wonders HE has done. 5 HE decreed statutes for Jacob and established the law in Israel, which HE commanded our ancestors to teach their children, 6 so the next generation would know them, even the children yet to be born, and they in turn would tell their children. 7 Then they would put their trust in GOD and would not forget HIS deeds but would keep HIS commands.
Key Verse: Psalm 78:4
We will not hide them (GOD’s Commandments) from their descendants; we will tell the next generation the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord, his power, and the wonders he has done.
Personal attributes of the true Christian
What attributes should characterize a true Christian? How is the true follower of CHRIST to live? What does Christian teaching say about what kind of person a Christian is to be? What kind of words describe him?
Colossians 3:5-10 Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. {6} Because of these things the wrath of GOD is coming upon the sons of disobedience, {7} in which you yourselves once walked when you lived in them. {8} But now you yourselves are to put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. {9} Do not lie to one another, since you have put off the old man with his deeds, {10} and have put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of HIM who created him,
Colossians 3:12-16 Therefore, as the elect of GOD, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; {13} bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as CHRIST forgave you, so you also must do. {14} But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. {15} And let the peace of GOD rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful. {16} Let the WORD of CHRIST dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the LORD.
I Thessalonians 4:3-5 For this is the will of GOD, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; {4} that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honour, {5} not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know GOD; {7} For GOD did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness.
Rom 13:12-14 Therefore let us cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armor of light. {13} Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy. {14} But put on the LORD JESUS CHRIST, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.
I Thessalonians 4:9 But concerning brotherly love you have no need that I should write to you, for you yourselves are taught by GOD to love one another;
I Thessalonians 4:11 that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you,
Titus 1:6-9 if a man is blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of dissipation or insubordination. {7} For a bsgchinese must be blameless, as a steward of GOD, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, {8} but hospitable, a lover of what is good, sober-minded, just, holy, self- controlled, {9} holding fast the faithful word as he has been taught, that he may be able, by sound doctrine, both to exhort and convict those who contradict.
Titus 2:1-12 Speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: {2} that the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; {3} the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behaviour, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; {4} that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, {5} to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the WORD of GOD may not be blasphemed. {6} Likewise exhort the young men to be sober- minded, {7} in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works; in doctrine showing integrity, reverence, incorruptibility, {8} sound speech that cannot be condemned, that one who is an opponent may be ashamed, having nothing evil to say of you. {9} Exhort bondservants to be obedient to their own masters, to be well pleasing in all things, not answering back, {10} not pilfering, but showing all good fidelity, that they may adorn the doctrine of GOD our SAVIOUR in all things. {11} For the grace of GOD that brings salvation has appeared to all men, {12} teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly in the present age,
Titus 3:1-3 Remind them to be subject to rulers and authorities, to obey, to be ready for every good work, {2} to speak evil of no one, to be peaceable, gentle, showing all humility to all men. {3} For we ourselves were also once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another.
Titus 3:8-11 This is a faithful saying, and these things I want you to affirm constantly, that those who have believed in GOD should be careful to maintain good works. These things are good and profitable to men. {9} But avoid foolish disputes, genealogies, contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and useless. {10} Reject a divisive man after the first and second admonition, {11} knowing that such a person is warped and sinning, being self-condemned.
James 1:19-22 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; {20} for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of GOD. {21} Therefore lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the implanted WORD, which is able to save your souls. {22} But be doers of the WORD, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
James 1:26 If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one's religion is useless.
James 3:16-17 For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there. {17} But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, willing to yield, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality and without hypocrisy.
James 4:4 Adulterers and adulteresses! Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with GOD? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of GOD.
James 4:7-8 Therefore submit to GOD. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. {8} Draw near to GOD and HE will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.
I Peter 1:13-17 Therefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and rest your hope fully upon the grace that is to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ; {14} as obedient children, not conforming yourselves to the former lusts, as in your ignorance; {15} but as HE who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, {16} because it is written, "Be holy, for I am holy." {17} And if you call on the FATHER, who without partiality judges according to each one's work, conduct yourselves throughout the time of your stay here in fear;
I Peter 2:1-2 Therefore, laying aside all malice, all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and all evil speaking, {2} as newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the WORD, that you may grow thereby,
I Peter 2:11-12 Beloved, I beg you as sojourners and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul, {12} having your conduct honourable among the Gentiles, that when they speak against you as evildoers, they may, by your good works which they observe, glorify God in the day of visitation.
I Peter 3:8-12 Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tender-hearted, be courteous; {9} not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing. {10} For "He who would love life And see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, And his lips from speaking deceit. {11} Let him turn away from evil and do good; Let him seek peace and pursue it. {12} For the eyes of the LORD are on the righteous, And HIS ears are open to their prayers; But the face of the LORD is against those who do evil."
I Peter 4:3 For we have spent enough of our past lifetime in doing the will of the Gentiles; when we walked in lewdness, lusts, drunkenness, revelries, drinking parties, and abominable idolatries.
I Peter 4:8-9 And above all things have fervent love for one another, for "love will cover a multitude of sins." {9} Be hospitable to one another without grumbling.
II Peter 1:2-10 Grace and peace be multiplied to you in the knowledge of GOD and of JESUS our LORD, {3} as HIS divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of HIM who called us by glory and virtue, {4} by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. {5} But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, {6} to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, {7} to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. {8} For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our LORD JESUS CHRIST. {9} For he who lacks these things is short-sighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. {10} Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble;
One evening, as a father was helping his young son get ready for bed, he talked about what Christian should be like and how they should act (refer to the above stated verses). When the father finished describing what GOD’s requirement on the attributes of a true Christian, his son asked a startling question: “Daddy, have I ever seen a true Christian?” The father was stunned. What kind of an example have I been? He wondered.
Imagine being asked that question by your son or daughter. Today’s Scripture calls us to teach our children about GOD so clearly that they have no reason to wonder if they’ve ever seen a true believer (Christian). The writer of Psalm 78 calls us to help our children know the things of GOD by telling them the many reasons we have to praise the LORD (verse 4) and teaching them HIS laws and statutes (verse 5). And such teaching happens as much – if not more – through our lives as through our words! Our children will look to us in the day-to-day situations of life to see what being a true Christian looks like. That is one reason why GOD, speaking through Moses, instructs to “impress” upon our children GOD’s commandments by talking “about them when you lie down and when you get up” (Deuteronomy6: 6-7 These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.)
It’s a big order to fill. We fathers and mothers are to reflect GOD and HIS character to our children. As they look into our faces, listen to our words, and watch our lives, they are to see a man and woman of godly speech, actions and goal. Granted, you and I are in process. Our Christian growth comes day by day as, with GOD’s help, we take off the old self – those attitudes, beliefs and behaviours which reflect the dark, sinful side of our nature – and are transformed by HIS SPIRIT into a more Christ-like person. Our children are watching this process. How are we doing? What are they seeing?
GOD calls us fathers and mothers to train and nurture our children in HIS ways and that kind of teaching comes by our living example as well as by specific teaching times. When we ourselves are growing in our faith, we can reflect GOD’s grace to our children and they will know that they have seen a true Christian.