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River common saying says for 30 years, river easts, 30 yearses, west, ever how much village the miss contended for to break a head to also want to marry inside in the city of idea, triangle at present in the bead majority wealthy of village already drive gradually overturn, many village families with gave bonus talk marriage to talk about to marry at the sons and daughters problem up particularly think greatly of whether the other ** is the same as village residents, and the other ** whether that giving bonus of village is enough many. recently, at Buddha mountain one well-known forum up, is one named farmer population to really fasten Link importance? Of the invitation card arouse a net friend to extensively pay attention to and order to review.Claiming to be the silly love of the person's net friend in the city is the of hair person, she says have recently friend the plan introduces a village population of the male kid gives her understanding, but the other ** of the first condition is unexpectedly a village population ,shanghai escort, my thinking of the reason that breaks up with past that boyfriend is also I isn't a village population, feel very helpless, be discriminated against the hh invitation card of silly love a, sympathy voice, query a voice, rebuke immediately and bomb together, doing not arrive several return cards is about 100 people. the reporter investigate and discover, village chooses a spouse to request the population that the of equal status idea regards above personage of middle age as principle, this kind of idea have intention to not intentional ground the pressure that resulted in to marry to love to the village youth generation.The part is a love, simultaneously is a bread, on their selection, the reporter discovers majority of village a youth still a choices the former. our country famous socialologist, Chinese the people university law sociology bureau chief week filial piety in graduate school full professor thinks, there is one in the heart of everybody thinking worthy Zhang, the value of the marriage isn't pure feelings or money, but various comprehensive, premarital thought to be pure to choose good, everyone in the future need not blame anyone, either. reporter, Deng Zhu Feng,
the pretty girl tell a bitterness: have no village population in love is refused
net friend the silly love's recent mood fall low very much.Originally, in the in love problem, she because of having no village population drive popularity two times. some day, colleague means introduction boyfriend to her, but asks her to have village population first, I respond to say be not, the result colleague very generously says that that doesn't introduce. same day, a male kid says with me and in fact has felling to me, but regrettable his family must he seeks a village population of, I feel very helpless.The silly love says in the invitation card. she is surprisingly, because oneself doesn't have village population and connect to clap to drag along to all be subjected to a bias. net friend hot argument: village population where is the magic power? ever, how many villages the persons all thought the village population that the way gets away from, talk that the marriage theory married why to become a main condition at the person of Buddha mountain at present? To this, the net friends launched a vehemence discussion, in the middle the liberal village give bonus main cause. net friend weiliangluo say: ascend the village of level in the Buddha mountain, everybody about has 10,000 giving bonus of several 1000 dollarseses annually,beijing massage, is a guarantee to oneself, another village inside still takes part in to cure to protect for you, and this is very important to majority of families. the his milk of net friend Wei confirm, all of their husband and wives are villages population, and two people add to all have several 10000 dollars a years. reporter's survey:
village the of equal status idea come from more parent's pressure
the above-mentioned network discuss of the village population marriage love a problem, the reporter arrives at south china sea the east and Chan city area several village with more wealthies random covered 10 come to local villager, discover big parts of middle age's above villager seeking to the children, grandson and granddaughter half of another initial condition very explicit, in spite of is to save a wife or a province outsider, the key wants village population of, had better certainly is the population of local wealthy village.At present, there is car's the blind date new standard with building to rather have village population quietly rising at the Buddha mountain village. want a bread to seek a daughter-in-law to want farmer to seek a son-in-law have to enrich village
love, bread, is who but fight? in addition to village population, the reporter investigates and discovers, male villager and female villager request to be not very same either while choosing a spouse.South china sea village residents, Ms. He, of the area inside water inferiority in the town tells a reporter, the elder of place village minds children to marriage half of another population problems very much. Buddha mountain the big part give bonus more liberal villages to all have such a policy, the this village male marries the village population of other places female, can move the female's population into this village to enjoy to give bonus,shanghai escort, certainly if the female's population right and wrong agriculture then can not enjoy to give bonus.But this village the female marry the village population of other places male, female of can don't move a population according to physically considering to want, this sees she marries of the village gives bonus much and not much. Ms . He say, just because of this, the male in the village to half of another requests as long as being that the village population is all right, but the female even hopes then that the other ** comes from wealthy village, letting oneself marrying over can increase in value. make the youth want love is more than to want a bread
although, parents and village precinct chief's majority of hope childrens chose village population object while choosing a spouse, the reporter investigates and discovers, the village men and women's majority of Buddha mountain young generation all not eat this set of, greatly parts of persons mean marriage or want to build up on feelings foundation, there is village population nature had better, have no also not demand, get along together and then go. take me am by myself an example, although the husband isn't a village population, didn't give bonus, he is outstanding because of working, a year of income is more a lot of than giving bonus of village, we as usual lead very happily,beijing escort, and I feel husband and wife both parties if all have been already given bonus, not necessarily so will have much hard working, have no advantage to the home farsighted development, in case of be that talent red and little to how do.Ms. Lee says. the salt tread villager, Ms. Kuang,shanghai massage,, two year agos married Buddha mountain suburbanly non-peasant household person, my person in the homes all said at that time I was silly , I felt to seek a person who didn't like leads a lifetime, even if give I again many of money was to suffer mental agony! At present, 2 husband and wife of Ms. Kuang at south china sea the salt tread to conduct one wife and children store, business red fire fire. give attention to both bread and love
good is the non-peasant household of the laurel city south china sea residents, through the village population of the free love and this area man combined a marriage, because of allied place village rules, marry into the daughter-in-law of this village, if originally is a village population of can move into to enjoy village to give bonus, if original right and wrong peasant household of can not move into.In consideration of everybody in the village gives bonus the around ten thousand dollar annually, 2 people decide that the curve saves a country, first the good population moves into a Yue northern far building village kin house,beijing escort, then turns into bridegroom's family place with village population daughter-in-law's identity village.The reporter understands, this kind of way of doing's hasing become Buddha mountain village is an interesting marriage phenomenon. expert's parlance:
is a love or be all a common feeling for bread
this problem have no a necessity to excessively blame to all any individuals, because everyone's mindsets are all similar,G222.3-43 L175 @ Li Huanqin @ @ TV program production technology editor, where have an advantage to flow where, the marriage of the village youth loves for give bonus also good, is a love let it be, all of this is a common feeling! have one to think worthy Zhang in the heart of everybody, the value of the marriage isn't pure feelings or money, but various comprehensive.Is premarital as long as oneself thinks to be clear and weigh like is seek to give bonus well, still pure seek oneself to like of well, I think all doesn't matter.Thought to be pure to choose good,shanghai massage, everyone in the future need not blame anyone, either, this choice has no to or wrong,beijing massage, be like a person in the city to talk that the marriage theory marries of? Both parties' parent also equally sees the backgrounds like work unit, etc of the other **, the truth is similar. mm Chinese people university law sociology bureau chief week filial piety in graduate school full professor |
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