<p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">宁做大款情人也不做穷人老婆(下)</span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></b></p><span><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">回头跟一个叫</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">前尘往事</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">的男性网友聊到这个话题时,他很无奈,说现在的女生很现实,没有办法,谁都希望生活过得好一些。他说他的女友被一个公司老总包养了,他想过去跟那个老总拼命。可人家一句话就把他给打发了,那个老总说:你拿什么跟我拼?连自己的女朋友都抓不住的男人,拼了命还可以拼什么?现在,他说他想通了,自己在一家公司上班,拿点小工资,无法满足女朋友的虚荣心,原本准备国庆节结婚的计划彻底泡汤了,只能眼睁睁看着她投入人家有钱人的怀抱。自己认命得了,等哪个倒霉的女孩看上自己再说吧。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman"><p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">我所住小区的一个在一家外资公司上班的女生,就告诉过我她妈妈对她的忠告:你不要找家境不好的男孩子,他自身条件再好,也不要轻易动心。要找就找一个有钱的男人,即便他并不真的爱你,现在没有多少真爱,没有真爱,就先让自己的日子过的安稳最好。原来,这个女生的妈妈跟爸爸都是工厂工人,过够了穷日子,他们不希望自己的宝贝女儿跟他们一样生活在最低层。女生说,她很理解妈妈的感受,她也看到过很多跟她一样的女生,即使没有找到有钱人,也不会轻易放下身段,去跟一个穷小子穷折腾,那样既伤害感情,也浪费青春,最后都恨对方,实在划不来。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman"><p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">看来,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">宁做大款情人也不做穷人老婆</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">的女孩子还真是大有人在,难道她们真的错了吗?按自己的方式生活,是现代女性追求个性与自由的最本质特征,她们对于</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">真爱、浪漫、幸福</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">等等曾经心动的美丽词汇感到了无奈、困惑,她们宁可没有真爱,难得浪漫,并不幸福,也要追求过一种衣食无忧的生活。虽然,这样的成果并不是她们劳动所得,但她们也付出了自己的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">资本</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,既然不是靠掠夺得来的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">资本</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,是自己天生就有的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">“</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">资本</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman">”</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">,她们为何要为自己的选择而耿耿于怀、患得患失呢?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black;"><font face="Times New Roman"><p></p></font></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">无数穷小子在追求女孩做老婆,而无数女孩偏偏宁愿投奔大款做情人,也要不屑穷小子所谓的真爱。这是否是如今爱情、婚姻越来越市场化、庸俗化的一种趋势?是否女孩内心的道德感在世俗面前,已经变得越来越无能为力?时间能改变这一切吗?不得而知。</span></p></span>
[此贴子已经被作者于2007-7-16 21:49:13编辑过] |