一个大陆家庭在新的生活记录——新加坡小学教育的分级制

legilimens

<p>snailtan辛苦了。我这帖子很长，都是一时兴起瞎掰话，只有小报水平别太当真。</p><p>我只能保证我所写的事情都是我亲眼所见，亲耳所闻，不会无中生有，颠倒黑白。但由此引发的感受就是仁者见仁，智者见智了。</p><p>因为这是我个人的博客贴，所以完全是麻子照镜子——个人观点。</p><p>同意我的，咱们握握手，人生苦短，知音难觅，既然有缘，一定珍惜。不同意也没关系，现在已经不是统一思想的年代。网络民主，言论自由。欢迎交流、讨论，不过只可文攻，不要武斗。</p><p>码一堆字也不容易，请大家有钱的帮个钱场，没钱的帮个人场，站脚助威，看贴回贴啦！&nbsp;</p>[em07][em07][em07]

legilimens

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legilimens

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“糠咽菜”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子是个小少爷，吃饭挑肥拣瘦。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我教训他不许挑食。老公在一边帮腔，说“我们小时候根本吃不到这些好东西。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子好奇地问“那你们小时候都吃什么呀？”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我答，“吃糠咽菜。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子憧憬地瞪大了眼睛，</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“糠咽菜是什么？好吃吗？”</span></p>[em06][em06][em06]

zkeanu

<p>怎么贴图上来， 我要学一学</p><p></p>

legilimens

<p>谢谢大家的支持！</p><p>我现在的感觉就是，弄个家可真不容易啊。</p>

legilimens

<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">迁居过程全纪录</span><font face="Calibri"> </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">——</span><font face="Calibri"> </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">开通水电气</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新房子水电气的管道都是装好的，但要申请开通。最简便的手续是填好物业给的表格，传真或邮寄到水电局，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">3-5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个工作日后开通。最快的办法是亲自到水电局营业厅申请，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">15</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">之前申请，第二天可以开通。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">老公性急，让我去营业厅办。我去了索美赛路的营业厅。因为租房子的时候中介带我去那里开的水电，我认识了地方。不过那次都是她一手包办的，我只是签字而已，对所有流程全无印象，这次自己亲历了一回。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">因为上午和客户聊了很长时间，大大超过我的预期，所以赶到营业厅时已经</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">了。好在人不多。我从排队机上取了个号，填好表格就坐在椅子上等，不停地看表。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">48</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，轮到我了。柜员是一位华族接待员。很热情，办事也麻利，华文讲得还不错。递过表格，接待员利落地输入电脑，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">56</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">时告诉我</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">OK</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">啦。可惜，最近搬新房的人太多，虽然我在</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">15</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">之前完成了手续，但还是被排到了两天之后。没办法，谁让前段时间房产大热呢，要搬家的人一定不少。接水电收了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">280</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">元的押金。约好两天后工人到家里开通。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">接了新的，还要断掉旧的。要断掉现在租屋的水电只需打个电话就可以。不过，她叮嘱我要提前半个月通知，否则不能及时结束。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">介绍完情况，接待员拿出一张反馈表给我填。她的服务很好，我自然全给评优。想到她的华语讲得不错，值得鼓励，我就顺便在评论栏中多写了一句“接待员的华语很好，很有帮助。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">接待员拿了我的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">IC</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">去复印，同时拿走反馈表，大概是要交到里面去吧。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">不过她很快就返身回来，悄悄问我“你写的那句是什么意思？我不会看字。”我告诉了她，她一副放下心来的神情，不好意思地说“我担心你会写我坏。”呵呵，小姐还真有意思，我前面给她评优，后面怎么会写坏话？她口语还算不错，但是竟然不认字，不晓得她的华文课都是怎么上的。教育部在不断降低对学生华文水平的要求，特别是读写方面。今后学生们的华文水平还真是让人担心呢。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">办完水电就到对面大厅办燃气。都在同一栋大楼里，很方便。这边挺清静，有几个人在看煤气灶，没有顾客等候办手续。接待我的是位中年男人。华语讲得很好，不过听口音就知道是新加坡人。他非常热情，先跟我聊了会儿天，告诉我他曾在上海工作过几年，非常喜欢那里，希望公司还能把他派回上海。对于中国，他最大的感受是大，有很多好玩的地方。他也去过北京和其他省市，知道长城、故宫、奥运会。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">办煤气和水电一样简单。填表，主要是家庭地址、个人信息。然后输入电脑就可以了。他告诉我要自己买煤气表，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">20</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">元，钱从下个月的账单扣除，所以不要付钱给工人。讲起业务来他非常耐心，细致得像个上海男人。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">很快，所有手续都办完了。两天后，工人到我家开通了水电气。只有煤气工人是拎了块表当场装上的，水电工人只是拧拧、看看而已，都没费什么时间。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">现在，我的新家已经具备居住的基本条件了。</span></p>

[此贴子已经被作者于2008-3-28 18:54:42编辑过]

legilimens

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>zkeanu</i>在2008-3-26 18:07:00的发言：</b><br/><p>怎么贴图上来， 我要学一学</p><p></p></div><p>发新贴时可以贴图。</p><p>回帖时要点击“回复”，出现的页面就有贴图选项。</p>

左手爱右手

恩，确实很真实，我刚来的时候，也是挺玉门的

tufaqixiang

<p>我一般都是潜水的,天天潜在水面下等着看楼主那可爱的儿子又有什么"语录"出现 ^_^哈哈,今天冒一小泡儿~~~~</p><p></p><p>有个问题请LZ帮忙:记得你有个韩国朋友的女儿是跳级了,是从小一直接跳小三吗?因为我儿子本来该上小二(和LZ儿子同岁吧),但来新后先上的小一,我觉得他上小二是没问题的,因此想让他还是和2000年出生的孩子一起学习.只是周围朋友没有类似的经验.所以想请你帮忙问问:</p><p>那个女孩子跳级时参加考试了吗?是学校的还是教育部的?</p><p>她到新的班级后适应的还好吗?(我听说小三的学习难度比小二大了很多,并且新同学新老师孩子会不会很寂寞?)</p><p>谢谢!顺便祝贺乔迁之喜!</p>

legilimens

<p>回tufaqixiang，</p><p>我说的那个女孩是在小一期末考试结束后参加了学校的跳级考试，其实就是做了一遍二年级期末考试的试卷，达到一定标准就可以跳级了。这应该是由学校掌握的，事先跟他们商量一下，申请跳级就可以。</p><p>小三的学习难度的确比小二大，而且加了一门科学课。但那个女孩非常刻苦，学得很好。</p><p>新加坡学校每年都按成绩重新分班，所以即使按顺序升班，老师和很多同学仍然会换新的，是否寂寞全看孩子自己的感觉。</p><p>那个女孩很活泼，性格十分开朗，适应得很好。</p>