<div style="BORDER-RIGHT: #b5b5b5 1pt solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: #b5b5b5 1pt solid; PADDING-LEFT: 8pt; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; BORDER-LEFT: #b5b5b5 1pt solid; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: #b5b5b5 1pt solid; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt;"><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">也许大家看到我的文章会觉得过于理论化,,抽象出来的东西,这就是没有肉的骨头,不过还是希望还是会对大家有些帮助。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第一,每个人要集中自己的优势去适合自己的领域发展。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">中国的教育跟西方的教育真的很不同,例如对待性格测试这件事情,中国的家长给小孩测试好了,会着重去看小孩不足的地方,然后对劣势之处有意培养,希望小孩都能成长为高大全的人物;西方的家长呢,却会看结果中小孩优势的地方,然后对优势之处有意培养,希望小孩能够成长为某个领域的专家。这种教育观念代代相传,于是中国就很少天才,因为我们的文化要把我们都培养成中庸的人</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">人一生只要做一件事情就够了,把这件事情做精,你就有了安身立命的根本。我认为,如果这句话再完善一些,就是,人一生,只要做一件自己最擅长的事情就够了,把自己的所有潜能发挥到极致,一定可以成为某一领域的佼佼者。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">例如,一个不擅长数理思维的人,无论怎么努力,也不可能比那些天生数理思维好的人,更容易取得成果;一个天生内向的人,无论怎么努力,也很难成为王牌销售员。我们为什么一定要找一份工作,锻炼培养自己不擅长的能力,反倒不去看自己的优势,着重发展呢?不是每个人都有机会做</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">CEO</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">,做高管的,大多数人,其实更容易做到的,是做精一份工作,在这个岗位上,成为别人不能替代的人才,所以,我劝大家放弃高大全的思想,去多发掘自己的优势吧。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">第二,建立深层次的人际关系,需要更多人文的关怀,让对方感受到你的真诚。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-border-alt: solid #B5B5B5 .75pt; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 0cm 0cm 8.0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">很多人,尤其是比较优秀的白骨精,经常会抱怨说,周围的人太浮躁,跟父母朋友没办法沟通等等。可是,看看我们大家,对亲朋好友都做了些什么。你有没有在跟他们约会之前先查日程安排并且让他们知道;有没有在跟他们谈话的时候,可能还在接电话做笔记;有没有汲汲于名利,参与过办公室斗争;有没有在日常休闲的时候,都在考虑跟领导搞好关系;有没有抱怨过男朋友女朋友不够关心自己,不能重视自己的每一句话;有没有跟父母吵架后认为,都是他们的责任,他们观点太落后</span><font face="Times New Roman"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: "mso-hansi-font-family:"; mso-hansi-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">.....</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #222222; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"><p></p></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left" style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; PADDING-RIGHT: 0cm; BORDER-TOP: medium none; PADDING-LEFT: 0cm; BACKGROUND: #f6f6f6; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0cm; MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 18pt; PADDING-TOP: 0cm; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none; 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