一个大陆家庭在新的生活记录——新加坡小学教育的分级制

chisg

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>legilimens</i>在2007-11-10 16:11:00的发言：</b><br/><p>那位挣了赔偿金的朋友一点也不开心，虽然三个月凭空拿了十万，但她最终没买到合适的房子。而她看中的房子一年内都翻番了，她的损失数以百万计。</p><p>我的朋友A后来找了律师，看过合同后告诉她，合同上只规定了买方不买应该赔偿，却没提卖方反悔应该如何。朋友连说，后悔太相信新加坡人，没有提前找律师。但我也有疑问，因为买房的合同基本上都是格式合同，不容修改，就算发现霸王条款，又能怎样？</p></div><p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡有消费者保护条款，只要合约上有注明卖方反悔应该如何，就能得到赔偿，所谓格式合同是法律用语，不代表内容都一样，前提是看清楚合约。</span></p><p><font color="#dd2222"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一位军坛上的网友讲述了一个很好的例子：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">2003</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年，有个在新加坡开公司的美国人曾在电视上抱怨这种双语制度，说他雇用了个成绩很好，精通双语的新加坡女孩做秘书，但上班第一天，这个女孩接到一个美国电话后就向他求助，表示听不懂电话里的美国口音。后来，女孩又拿着一份中国来的电报找他，表示无法看懂该中文电报。值得指出的是，这个美国白人在叙述这件事的时候，用的是真正流利的中文。</span></font></p><p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">这种破绽百出的故事还是别拿来当例子了。</span></p><p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">至于老师补课是有很多的，建议买份早报来看，特别是接近小六或者中四考试发榜时，有很多得到好成绩的外地学生接受访问时，都会谈到老师是如何给他们补课提升英文等科的成绩。楼主的小孩才一年纪，多观察一段时间吧。</span></p><p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">至于英才精英制度，在新加坡一向是争议不断的话题，不过这里有个特点，就算你一直在学校混日子，但只要那天你开了窍，一样能上到金字塔顶端，当然时间可就比别人多几年了，总之实力代表一切，选择在个人。</span></p>

angel_luo

<p>哈哈哈，笑死我了，笑死我了</p><p>虫虫，太可爱了</p>[em01]

yyhclt001212

“如果你希望孩子有个轻松愉快的童年，能够放学就玩。请转道去欧美。 <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果你的孩子不爱念书，或你没有足够的精力、财力加以辅导，请留在国内，让老师们教导他。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果你的孩子有天分，或你有足够的精力给孩子辅导功课，或有足够的财力给孩子请家教，念补习。那就来新加坡读小学吧。＂</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"></span>&nbsp;</p>[em17][em17][em17]

新的生活

<p>真的恐怖.</p><p>家里还要有人来照顾小孩放学后的半天.</p><p>孩子从小就练习耐性.</p><p></p>

samanosuke

<p>教孩子真是不容易，太多的责任要付。</p><p>这也是我不想要孩子的原因，</p>

legilimens

<p>ls还年轻吧，可以多等几年喽</p><p>不过，孩子真的很可爱的（多数时间里）</p>[em31]

legilimens

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>新的生活</i>在2007-11-12 1:14:00的发言：</b><br/><p>这小子,挺会抓理的啊,这个年纪就要跟他斗智斗勇了</p><p>我仿佛看见了几年以后我儿子的模样,只是不知道,那时候的我,会不会象楼主一样的智勇双全?</p><p>有点担心,555555555555555555555</p></div><p>不用担心，孩子会“教导”你的。 </p><p>每一对父母都是在“战斗”中成长起来的。</p>[em01][em01][em01]

legilimens

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>angel_luo</i>在2007-11-13 10:36:00的发言：</b><br/><p>哈哈哈，笑死我了，笑死我了</p><p>虫虫，太可爱了</p>[em01]</div><p>其实每个孩子都很可爱，就看父母是否愿意给他们做记录了。 </p><p>我就想，要是婆婆当初把LG的事迹也记录下来，说不定对比一看就会发觉，虫虫只是他爸爸的翻版吧</p>[em31][em31]

legilimens

<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">谈谈我对新加坡小学教育的感想</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我儿子刚刚结束在新加坡一所邻里小学一年级的学习。一年的时光，不算长，但从他的切身体会以及和其它家长，老师们的交流中，我逐渐了解了一些新加坡小学教育的状况。<span style="COLOR: black;">和中国的小学教育相比较，我觉得这里的小学教育有几点问题：</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black;"><p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一、课时安排不科学</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">不知是何缘故，新加坡小学都是上半天课，所以全部内容都压缩在半天的时间里。这在生理和心理上对孩子都是不利的。我儿子是早上上课，我觉得他的课程表很恐怖。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30 </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">升旗</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">8</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00-9</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30 </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">第一节课</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Calibri">&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">通常是英语或华文</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">9</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30-10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00 </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">课间休息</span><font face="Calibri">
                        </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">可以去食堂买饭，吃东西。我儿子总是利用这难得的时间到操场玩。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00-13</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30 </font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">第二节课</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"><font face="Calibri">&nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">包括英语</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">华文</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">数学</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">音乐</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">艺术</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">公民教育……</span><font face="Calibri">
                        </font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">只换老师，孩子们不动。有时上华文</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">/</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">艺术之类的课程需要换教室，那走路的几分钟就是孩子们难得的休息时间。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">13</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">下课，孩子们就要去赶校车。到家已经</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">14</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">00</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">那么小的孩子让他连着坐两、三个小时，即便不用手背后，也很累啊。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">7</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">8</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">岁的孩子注意力集中的时间很短暂，这么上课的效果令人怀疑。完全不符合教育心理学和儿童心理学的要求。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">而且孩子的中午饭也被迫推迟，两点才能吃中午饭，晚饭又被迫推迟，还会影响睡觉。对身体发育不利。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">二、缺乏体育锻炼</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">体育课（</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">PE</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">）每周</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">节，每节只有</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">30</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">分钟。在这里体育课被定义为玩。这里没有中国那种体校毕业的专业老师，只是由普通教师带课，也没有专门的教材，老师的主要任务是保安——看着他们防止出危险。就这样的一种课，还经常被任课老师随意侵占，孩子们上节课纪律不好，就被罚在教室坐着，不许去上体育课。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">所以，他们的运动会就很单调，只是跑来跑去，跑来跑去。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">三、师资力量不足</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">从师资上讲，新加坡的学校没有中国学校的老师那么专业。中国的老师即便教小学的，也都是师范大学毕业，在自己的专业领域里至少学习</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年。而且每人只负责一个专科，数学就是数学，语文就是语文，美术就是美术……</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡可能是老师太少的缘故，每人都教好几门。儿子的英文老师是他们的班主任，也教数学、美术、音乐和公民教育。要说这些新加坡老师个个都是全才，你信吗？</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">反正我觉得儿子的音乐、美术都没什么起色，感觉还不如他在中国念幼儿园时会的多呢，成天净在这些课上叠飞机了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">四、学习以成绩为重，学生不得不补习</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有人说新加坡的学生轻松，没什么作业，放了学就可以玩。我真想问问这些人，你说的是新加坡吗？</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡教育部提倡的是少教多学。谁来给我解释解释老师少教，孩子如何多学？</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在中国，孩子学习不好，老师给补课，追着孩子让他学。在新加坡，孩子学习不好，老师找家长，请给你的孩子找补习，成绩还不好？对不起，请去差班。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">放学就去玩的只有两种学生，一种是天才，一种是家长不做要求，放任自流的孩子。这两种孩子放到中国也能放学就去玩，也一样轻松。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">大部分学生放学后做什么？——</span><font face="Calibri">
                        </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">补习！上补习学校，或请家教老师，或由家长亲自上阵辅导。老师是少教，都靠学生课下多学呢。于是，许多名校老师做家教挣外快。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">五、新加坡小学淘汰太早</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">中国小学不许排名次，避免给孩子太大压力。也不会因为成绩不同而换班，大家都上同样的内容。第一次淘汰是在</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">6</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年级小学毕业。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡的小学每次考试都排名，孩子在班上的名次都清清楚楚写在成绩册上。每年期末考试结束都在全年级大排名，决定第二年上什么班。成绩好的上好班，配好老师，讲更多的内容；成绩差的上差班，讲尽可能少的内容，美其名曰因材施教。小学二年级，孩子就已经开始被因“材”施教了！</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">这对那些比较调皮，开窍晚的学生，特别是男孩而言是很不公平的，当他们还没有意识到学习的重要性，还没有真正的投入，还没开始扬帆起航的时候就已经被贴上差生的标签了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">六、双语教育名不符实</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在这里，华文只是一门课程而已，学生的华文水平比国内差之千里，是真正的第二语言。如果家长不抓紧的话，那这里学生的华文水平就相当于国内同级学生的英文水平。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">虽然社会上华文还可以作为一种通用语言，但支撑这种语言环境的都是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">4</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">50</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">岁的人，他们很多是老华校的毕业生。能流利讲述华文的年轻人不多。他们结结巴巴的华语犹如中国人结结巴巴的英文。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">当然，新加坡教育也有很好的地方：</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">其一，是英语大环境，不管它的发音如何，不管它是否有文化底蕴，至少它是英文教学，所以在英文的学习上比中国强很多。我敢说这里一年级的单词量已经超过中国</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">4-5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年级的单词量了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">第二个好处是，有利于天才。新加坡实行精英教育，从小学开始层层选拔，对于好学生，学校、社会都会倾注全力去培养。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡有几所名校，都是家长挤破头想让孩子进去的。如果孩子有幸在一年级入读名校，那也不能松懈，一旦跟不上，就会被学校踢出去。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">三年级有全国范围的高才班选拔，成绩好就可以入读名校高才班。名校每年也都会去邻里学校挑选成绩优异的学生，如果孩子成绩好，就可能步步高升。各学校也每年排名，用最好的老师教最好的班级，努力培养，让他们为校争光。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">第三，新加坡的最大好处是公平。不用权势和金钱，只要孩子成绩好，就可能进名校。虽然也有走后门的，但与中国相比真的可以忽略不计。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">所以，如果家长希望孩子有个轻松愉快的童年，能够放学就玩。应该去欧美。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果孩子无心向学，或家长没有足够的精力、财力加以辅导，应该到中国，让老师们教导他。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">如果孩子有天分，爱学习，或家长有足够的精力给孩子辅导功课，或有足够的财力给孩子请家教，念补习。那可以选择到新加坡读小学。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"></p></span>

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<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>legilimens</i>在2007-11-14 17:40:00的发言：</b><br/><p>道理虽然如此，但新加坡小学过早把学生分成三六九等，对开窍晚的孩子极不公平。很可能一些大器晚成的人才就被扼杀在差班里了。</p><p>实力不是自发的，要靠培养，环境很重要，特别是那些拉一拉就能上来，踢一脚就滚下去的普通的孩子。</p><p>感觉新加坡的教育制度就是太早挑出好的，踢掉“坏”的了。</p></div><p>所以说这一个教育政策一向是社会舆论争议的热门话题啊。</p><p>因材施教对一些孩子表现优异的家长来说，肯定是支持的，毕竟谁也不喜欢自己孩子的学习进度被拖慢。而对那些认为自己孩子是大器晚成或者公平主义的人，肯定是不支持的，毕竟谁也不喜欢自己孩子的学习路途被拉长。</p><p>应该说因材施教是正确的，但如何拿捏分班的时间却是个问题，也没一个准则，大器晚成的人是有，但更多的数据证明多数人只能逐步接受单一或技术课程。对一个相信精英和需要人才的国家，实在不可能选择一起前进的教育方针。</p><p>说到底，如果你真是金子，还是有机会发光，但怎样发光几时发光，父母和家庭教育很重要，报纸上德士司机和小贩家庭经济不宽裕，但一家培养出几个大学生的新闻也不少见，就如楼主所说，只要你成绩优异，这个政府绝对不会让你因为经济问题而读不了书的。</p>