一个大陆家庭在新的生活记录——新加坡小学教育的分级制

legilimens · 发表于 5-11-2007 11:42:00|来自：新加坡

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用优雅的猪在2007-11-4 1:46:00的发言： 在本地要学好华语很难,我们学校来读书的中国孩子,虽然母语是汉语,但是华语课成绩不见得比本地人理想.学语言,环境很重要.这里学习语言,主要就是讲求实用主义,为了能交流,但是深入不了,如同楼主所说,最后很多人都是半瓶子醋.没有那个环境.昨天还一个本地同事问我某某字读什么呢,小学老师懂的其实也不见得多,教给孩子的当然就是最基本的东西而已.</div>说得对啊，在这里越久，越觉得新加坡是实用主义为上。当然这也是不得以，国家小就更得讲求适者生存。但同时也抛弃了很多厚重的，需要时间积淀的，内心的，文化的东西。我们准备自己给他做补习，知子莫如父母，我们希望能摸索出最适合他，让他能愉快学习的教育方法。至于华文就更不会找人补习了，即使是新加坡名校的老师，我也不相信他们的华文能比我们好。“小孩子大多不喜欢听爸爸妈妈在学习上多罗嗦自己”，这话说的不错。不过，已经有好几位朋友把自己的孩子教导得很好了，这给了我们极大的鼓励。做父母不容易，我们要努力努力再努力了。

legilimens · 发表于 5-11-2007 11:48:00|来自：新加坡

<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">万圣节的小鬼聚会  <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新加坡的好处是东西合璧，就说鬼节吧，前脚刚过完中式鬼节，后脚就又庆祝西洋鬼节了。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我喜欢后者。中式鬼节搞得到处乌烟瘴气，一片肃杀，让人心情不愉快。西洋鬼节多好，大鬼小鬼尽情狂欢。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">晚上，物业在club<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">为孩子们举办庆祝晚会。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">聚在一起，我发现院子里居然有很多东方孩子，说明这里的新加坡人还是不少，当然，也有相当多的韩国和中国孩子，印度孩子居然也很多，我挺惊讶。平常，充斥着院子的都是在游泳或晒太阳的白种人，让我产生了这院子里白人特多的错觉，现在看来这里的种族分配挺平衡的。估计是1/3<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的华人，其中新加坡人和中国人（大陆的为主）各占一半。1/3<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的白人，1/3<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的韩国人和印度人。只不过白人孩子比较少，不显眼而已。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">物业的记录显示报名参加活动的一共有82<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个孩子。真多啊！club<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">里吵翻了天，听起来就像一池的蛤蟆。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">每个孩子都费尽心机地装扮自己。我把儿子扮成了一副骨架。这是我用A4<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">纸剪贴出来的。下面的黑衣服是朋友去年送儿子的蝙蝠侠服装，但不知为什么虽然封面上画了面具和披风，包装里却没有，我很奇怪新加坡居然也有这么不负责任的商家，卖出残缺不全的商品。不过，我把它废物利用了。我不喜欢在外面买那些千篇一律的服装，又费钱又没创意。自制的虽然粗糙，但很有趣，也博得了不少家长的青睐，儿子也神气十足的给大家做了一番摄影模特。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">开始，物业的人还组织孩子们在club<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">做游戏，但很快大家就没有耐心了，大人们也被吵烦了。于是每8<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个孩子一组，由热心的家长带领开始去敲门要糖。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">提供糖果的家庭是事先报名的。虽然比例不高，只有2.5%<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的家庭愿意参与，但在我们这个拥有1000<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">多户的大院子里也够用了，一共有28<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">家同意接纳孩子们。我家也是其中之一，我相信当儿子带着小朋友们来我家要糖时，一定会很得意，很开心的。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">事实证明，物业让孩子们分组出发的决定非常英明。8<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个孩子的音量已经足以吵死人了，要是怪物公司此时来我们院子取声音发电，一定会大丰收。而且电梯的承载量有限，多亏不是每个孩子的家长都跟着，我们这一组只有4<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个家长，但也把电梯挤得没有空当了。而且，我总担心超载，每次电梯开、关门，我都能感到轿箱在忽悠，在楼层电梯门顶端的映衬下，可以清楚地看出电梯的上缘在大幅度地上下摆动，真是吓死我了。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">很多洋人家长非常配合，在自己的门口装饰上吊饰、南瓜灯、蜘蛛网、黑色幔帐等等。还有一个人戴着鬼脸，躲在幔帐后面，吓唬每一个胆敢从他面前的簸箩里拿糖的孩子。孩子们尖叫着，但是拿得更欢了。这些孩子简直就是一群狼，是来抢劫的，手伸进糖果堆里，一抓一大把。有人用大蒸锅端出一锅糖，很快就被一抢而空。有一家人显然被抢怕了，关着防盗门，一颗一颗往外递。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">当儿子兴高采烈地带领小伙伴们冲到我们家时，老公举着原来装糖果的黑布袋，做投降状说“抱歉，糖都发光了。”天，我可买了不少糖啊。老公说算上儿子这拨儿，他已经接待10<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">拨儿孩子了，难怪弹尽粮绝呢。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">终于到家了，我再也没精神陪着儿子一起疯了。他倒也不在意，拉上其他孩子又自顾自地“串门”去了。我想起了他过的第一个万圣节。那时他刚上幼儿园，才一岁半，是全园最小的孩子，所以老师们都认识他，也很疼他。虽然最小，但在要东西吃的时候他可不羞涩，带领全班第一个冲进了院长室，抱着院长奶奶的手要糖吃。晚上去接他，每一个遇到的老师都向我讲述这段故事，哈哈。现在，他又发挥这种特别能战斗的精神了。22<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">：30<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，儿子回家了。大获全胜，要来的糖几乎和我买的一样多！ [em01][em01][em01]

yibei · 发表于 5-11-2007 15:11:00|来自：新加坡

<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder">以下是引用legilimens在2007-11-1 7:59:00的发言： 你老公那位同事的做法，我是明确反对的。中国的发展人所共见，连老外都上赶着要挤这班车，中国人自己怎么能轻易放弃呢？让孩子放弃学华文，等于自己抛弃了自己的长处啊。  [em12]</div>老公的那位同事是新加坡人,他担心的是,孩子华文程度太差,会影响小六会考的总分,要考上名校是不可能的.

legilimens · 发表于 6-11-2007 20:41:00|来自：新加坡

<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">给你来一个<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子吃完晚饭，把他万圣节收获的糖果拿了出来。我瞪他。平时我根本不给他买糖，觉得那东西对身体不好，更是坏牙的罪魁祸首。但对他万圣节夜晚的辛苦成果法外施恩，没有剥夺他享用的权利。尽管如此，我还是在他吃糖的时候冲他皱眉头，以此表明我不赞成的态度。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子凑上来拍着我的肩头，大方地说“我保证给你来一个!<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">”<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">唉，原来，在他眼里，我的气愤是因为没糖吃啊。[em04]

legilimens · 发表于 6-11-2007 20:38:00|来自：新加坡

原来如此，新加坡人就没法要求了。[em01]

legilimens · 发表于 7-11-2007 08:45:00|来自：新加坡

谢谢天安门的支持孩子的很多想法真的很有趣。[em01]

legilimens · 发表于 7-11-2007 08:47:00|来自：新加坡

<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在新加坡买房——朋友的有趣经历  <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">尽管我和A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小时候都住在西四，只隔了几条胡同。但相互认识却是在新加坡。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子入学报道那天，在喧闹的大厅里，我们相遇了。彼此吸引的是熟悉的乡音。有趣的是，在北京时总有人说我不是北京人，因为没有老北京的那种腔调，但在异国他乡却总能被人准确地指认出是北京人，哈哈，看来我的北京味在出国之后反而纯正了。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">说自己是来陪读的。我很好奇。因为我觉得北京、上海的基础教育都非常好，所以对从这两个地方出来的陪读妈妈特别不理解。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">解释说因为他们全家已经办好移民美国的手续，但自己和孩子的英文都很差，怕不能适应，所以到新加坡进修一下。原来如此，虽然我觉得有点儿多此一举，不过，人家有钱，自然想怎么过怎么过了。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">为了考察进修环境，A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">已经飞来四趟了。除了给自己和孩子办手续外，最大的重点是看房子。他们看中了旭日湾的一套3+1<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，70<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">多万。当场拍下5<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">万订金，签了意向书。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">新年（2007<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年）过后，孩子开学了。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">也和丈夫一起去收房子，没想到房子被售楼处高价卖给了别人。经理是新加坡人，信誓旦旦地说A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">签的意向书没有他的签名，也没有公司的印章，是售楼先生的个人行为。那个小伙子吓得缩在一边发不出声音。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">气坏了，售楼处就在旭日湾的一套公寓里，售楼先生也是在这间办公室里和她签的合同，5<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">万元也有会计过手，他们并未寻找中介，而且，国外不像中国到处都是大红印章，国外都是签个名就算的。现在他们居然大言不惭地推翻了合同。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">叫来了警察。警察也很气愤，从道义上谴责了售楼经理，但同时也告诉A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，他没办法插手，这件事不属于他的管辖范围。警察离开后，售楼经理的精神头儿更足了，一口咬定只退订金，不付利息，更不付赔款，并且嚣张地催促A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">去法庭告他。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">当然没去，漂泊在外，人生地不熟，忍了。A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">说自己在北京买房，合同都是一个字一个字的查看，在这里就没细究，一来合同是全英文，不易看懂；二来觉得这是新加坡啊，怎么会有骗人的事呢？完全放松了警惕。这次就算买个教训，不能信任这些人。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">房子没买成，先买辆车。北京人喜欢开车，脚下没轱辘就跟没腿一样难受。虽说A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">来的头一年不用换驾照，但她是个手脚利索的人，很快就换了驾照。BTT<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">考试对多年的老司机而言，实在是易如反掌。没几天她就满大街飞驰了。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">有了车看房更容易。她又看中了道南小学对面的一处小型公寓。3+1<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，98<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">万。又下了订金。这次找的是中介，屋主是新加坡人，全家在香港工作生活，屋子装修好后一直空着。此时，A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">还住在酒店里，花钱事小，不能洗衣、做饭让她很痛苦，因为在外面找不到可口的食物，她急着要自己开伙。于是和屋主商量，在办妥买房手续之前，先租着住，付一个月3000<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">块的租金。按说这样的好事，想都不用想了吧？屋子空着也是空着，那3000<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">块怎么算都是白来的。可那屋主就是想不通，反复说这不合规矩，还是要她等办完过户手续再搬。气得A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">真骂新加坡人没脑子。不过，最后好说歹说终于说通了。付了3000<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">块，A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">喜气洋洋地搬了新居。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">这样过了半个月，A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">告诉我又生变故了。答应卖房的是男主人，现在新加坡楼价上涨，女主人不愿意卖。他们也毁约了。屋主同样口口声声要A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">去告他。看样子法庭已经成了他们的靠山。我替A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">生气。一年前我们在上海，房价高涨，屋主毁约的事屡见不鲜。我有个朋友眼光好，看中的房子老被人抢走，3<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个月内她“挣”了十多万的赔偿金。看来，在中国没地儿告状反而是好事了。在新加坡，因为有法庭，A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">反而拿不到应得的赔偿。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">不过，这回A<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">倒不生气，反说多亏那屋主反悔，她高兴死了。因为那套房不好住。那个小公寓在两条主路的交叉点上，每天车来车往，噪音严重。最可怕的是经常有摩托车在凌晨飚车，那些去掉消音器的摩托车在半夜呼啸而过，把熟睡中的她吵醒，好几个小时都无法再入睡。她已经下决心不买那个房了，现在屋主反悔，正中下怀。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在朋友家挤了几天，她终于买到了称心如意的房子。在勿洛蓄水池边上，环境清幽，楼层又高，3+1<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，50<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">多万。这回她是真的完成了手续，住了进去。4<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">月底搬进的，8<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">月份她开心地告诉我，她的房子升值了，好几个人出价80<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">多万要她的房。她看好新加坡楼市。10<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">月份，她告诉我又搬家了，在另一处买了间大型的公寓，有7<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">、8<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">百户，设施齐全，甚至还有保龄球。4+1<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">，一百多万。原来那套准备等涨到一百万再出手。<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">她真的看好新加坡楼市，我猜，保不齐哪天她又看中一套呢。