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[狮城生活] 一个大陆家庭在新的生活记录——新加坡小学教育的分级制

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发表于 10-11-2007 09:11:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
<p>Nonsense.&nbsp;I completed the entire classical novel when I was in secondary school. Mind you the text is in the traditional form.</p><p>I built up my Mandarin foundation here&nbsp;so&nbsp;at the end of the day, it is the attitude of the individual that counts.</p>
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发表于 10-11-2007 16:03:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
小狮租房
<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>meidance</i>在2007-11-9 16:38:00的发言:</b><br/>不好意思,只看了前十页就发言![em04]</div><p>没关系呀。 </p><p>这个贴子是我在新生活的各种感受的集合,随想随写,都源于生活,并不因为写在前十页,那些感受就消失了。 </p><p>欢迎大家对各种主题进行讨论,因为它们都是现在进行时。</p>[em01][em01]
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发表于 10-11-2007 16:11:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>chisg</i>在2007-11-7 12:58:00的发言:</b><br/><p>在新加坡,是很重视合约条文的,如果看不懂英文,最好花点钱找个律师看看,如果合约有写明的,上法庭绝对能拿回公道。</p><p>还有你朋友能“挣”了十多万的赔偿金,实在有够牛的。看来投资中国房地产还是要通过在地人或者自己亲自坐镇,这可是经历过血本无归得来的教训。</p>[em11]</div><p>那位挣了赔偿金的朋友一点也不开心,虽然三个月凭空拿了十万,但她最终没买到合适的房子。而她看中的房子一年内都翻番了,她的损失数以百万计。</p><p>我的朋友A后来找了律师,看过合同后告诉她,合同上只规定了买方不买应该赔偿,却没提卖方反悔应该如何。朋友连说,后悔太相信新加坡人,没有提前找律师。但我也有疑问,因为买房的合同基本上都是格式合同,不容修改,就算发现霸王条款,又能怎样?</p>
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发表于 10-11-2007 16:21:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
<div class="msgheader">QUOTE:</div><div class="msgborder"><b>以下是引用<i>meidance</i>在2007-11-9 9:45:00的发言:</b><br/><p>三国?我给孩子读,他都不要听,他说听不明白。虽然学校课本中有三国的片断。但孩子说,人物太多忆不得。唉!不如看电视。</p><p>给孩子辅导华文,我已经放弃了。因为我受不了,他读了六年书,认识得字还不足以读现代小说(别说经典啦)。</p>[em04]</div><p></p><p>千万不要放弃,在英语环境里学华文就如逆水行船,不进则退。一旦放弃就可能连他原来掌握的那点都丢掉了。</p><p>谁都知道学华文比英文难得多,孩子怕苦是可以理解的。更何况他们小小年纪还不能理解掌握华文的重要性,这时候家长的鼓励和支持是绝对不能少的。</p><p>mmouse说的对,态度决定结果。家长的态度一定要坚决。</p><p>说到三国,我觉得应该从孩子感兴趣的片断讲起。比如我儿子最喜欢火烧赤壁、水淹七军、空城计等片断,我就让他看这几段,允许他跳过他不喜欢的章节。学习本质上是一件苦事,特别是当孩子还不能体会到丰富的知识带来的乐趣时,家长帮他们找兴奋点就特别重要。一定要努力迎合他们的兴趣让他们愿意学才好。</p>
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发表于 11-11-2007 11:19:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">做不好就写一百遍</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在教育儿子上有一个共识,那就是不打、骂儿子。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">但有时说服教育对这个年纪的孩子而言,没有力度,他有些屡教不改的毛病的确让人头痛,比如做试卷不写名字,小便后不冲马桶,吃完东西乱丢包装纸……每次我们都提醒他,他能做到,但经常会忘记。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">考试之前,我让他做名校试卷练习一下,他忘记写名字。我罚他把名字写一百遍。他哭着写完了。后来再做卷子就没忘记,而且名字写得也比以前工整了。我发现这个在我们小时候深恶痛绝的惩罚措施效果不错。看来能够历经千百年留传下来的东西的确有它存在的道理。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">今天,儿子吃完点心又随手留下了包装纸,被</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">当场抓住。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我们宣布,让儿子把不良行为写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍。儿子当即崩溃,放声大哭,“太多了!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">然后我们就开始将措施具体化,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">对儿子说“你自己造个句子吧。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子大怒:“不造。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">:“好啊,那就写<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">吃完东西必须要扔垃圾</b>,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">10</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个字。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子:“只写<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">垃圾</b>”,悲痛欲绝,仍不失理智坚持斗争。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我说:“不行,没头没脑的,什么意思?这么写是说你是垃圾吗?”儿子一边抹着眼泪一边噗嗤笑了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">:“这样吧,至少写<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">要</b></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt;">扔</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">垃圾”,</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">最后我拍板定为“扔垃圾”。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子还是一副哭天抢地的样子,边拍桌子边摇头大哭,“太多了!</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">3</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">个字就是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">300</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍,太多了!”嘿,这他算得还挺快的。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我们不理他,这种情况下,家长就得狠下心来,不能让步,否则就管不住他了,孩子最擅长得寸进尺。我和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG在一边</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">比赛玩《</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">TODAY</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">》上</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">星级的数独题。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子在屋里狂奔,东一头,西一头地乱窜,时不时哭两声,声音尖厉嘶哑,涕泪横流。我不动声色地提醒他赶紧收玩具,准备睡觉。我们给他规定每天睡前要把玩具收好,没收好的我就要拿走不给玩,因为我没收过一次,他记住了,不敢怠慢,钻进游戏室收玩具。我和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">听着他收玩具时故意制造出的噼里啪啦的噪音,和断断续续的哭声偷着乐。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">收完玩具儿子又跑出来纠缠,“太多了,妈妈,我不想写!”他推我们的桌子,跳着脚地大喊,“我就不写!”</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一边往自己的报纸上写数字,一边坚定地回答,“做得不好就得写!”儿子一头栽倒在沙发上嚎啕大哭。一会儿没了声息。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我劝他,“你赶紧洗了去睡觉吧,明天早晨写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍,以后记住就没事了。”儿子不吭声。我严正宣告,“你就是在沙发上睡一晚,明天早晨也得写!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子跳起来,又哭了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">见我们都在埋头做自己的题,儿子觉得很无趣。凑到我身边,坐到了我的腿上,抱着我的胳膊猛亲。我摇头,“不行,就得写。”儿子见温柔攻势没用,哭得更响了,报复地把鼻涕、眼泪抹到我的胳膊上。我赶紧给他递过面巾纸。儿子钻到我的怀里继续哭。我一边搂着他一边做题。这是从小养成的习惯,他做了错事挨批评,或提了无理要求被拒绝,都会哭着靠到我身边寻求慰藉。我会搂着他亲他,表示我们爱他,但不会纵容他。让他知道他是被爱的,但错误是不被容许的。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">情绪平息了一些,儿子又跑一边生闷气去了。我成功地完成了自己的题目。看我做完,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">哀叹一声,把头砸在了自己的报纸上,“他太吵了,我根本没法集中精神。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我得意地说,“他还在我身上抹鼻涕呢,我也做完了。”</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">老不相信我玩数独比他强,呵呵。做完题,我起身去洗澡,把儿子这块烫手的山芋甩给了</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">刚洗完,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">就一脸得意地进了屋,开心地说“成交了,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">80</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍。”我很惊讶,为什么让步了?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">原来,我走后,儿子又去折磨</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">先是将心比心,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子:“我今天还给你拿好吃的呢,你就这样对待我!!!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">:“两码事。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一计不成,嚎着跑了</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">再则苦肉计</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子:“爸爸,我不想写字,罚站吧。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">:“不行。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子:“那就打屁股吧,打</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">下”。这小子不知道挨打的厉害,打</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">下?那屁股还不烂了?</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">:“不行。我手还疼呢,把你屁股打烂了,还得上医院。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">三则晓之以理,哭丧脸突然严肃起来,</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子:“我平时做的不错的,就是偶尔忘掉一次,这次不巧被你抓住了,就要写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri"> 100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍,那我原来做得好的时候不都白做了吗?”</span><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">胡搅蛮缠不行,理性分析应该鼓励,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">于是决定“那就写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">80</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍。”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子登鼻子上脸,“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">50</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">“不行!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子扭头跑了,琴房里竟然响起了歌声。过了一会儿,又探出头来“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">70</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍行吗?”,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一锤定音,“不是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">80</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍就是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍!”儿子终于同意了,先洗澡睡觉,明天早上写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">80</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍“扔垃圾”。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">讨价还价进行了一个小时,</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">扔下了自己的笔,他已经做不出那道数独题了。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">正绘声绘色地向我汇报,儿子进了我们的房间,“爸爸,把我的喷头拿下来!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">我家的主卫归我和</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">用,客卫归儿子专用。他喜欢把喷头拿在手里洗澡。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">打完球,偷懒进了他的卫生间淋浴,把喷头挂在墙上忘记取下来。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">忘记过不止一次,儿子也抗议过不止一次。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">连声说着“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">sorry</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">”,一溜烟地跑去给他摘喷头。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">儿子望着</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">LG</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的背影得意地大叫“下次再忘了,你就把‘摘喷头’写</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Calibri">100</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">遍!!!”</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 7.8pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: .5gd;"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Calibri">&nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p></p>
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发表于 12-11-2007 01:14:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
<p>这小子,挺会抓理的啊,这个年纪就要跟他斗智斗勇了</p><p>我仿佛看见了几年以后我儿子的模样,只是不知道,那时候的我,会不会象楼主一样的智勇双全?</p><p>有点担心,555555555555555555555</p>
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发表于 14-11-2007 07:37:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
很喜欢看楼主的文章,真实,客观,有趣。
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发表于 14-11-2007 09:46:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 14-11-2007 15:43:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
生活环境还是可以滴,但我对新加坡的语言及文化不敢苟同,我儿子也是幼儿园。主要是我们的工作赚钱需要,所以我就不准备申请PR.
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发表于 14-11-2007 15:47:00|来自:美国 | 显示全部楼层
关健是新加坡领导好啊,取之于民,用之于民。人么,比不上国内。
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